KAMLA |
Kamla has
been with us for a month and a half now.
I have had a chance to get to know her a little better. She is a mountain girl born and raised in
Ghorakhal near Bhowali. Her marriage is
what she calls a “love marriage", rather than an arranged marriage. Her husband asked her to marry him. She knew him by reputation and knew him to be
a good man. She asked her family to
arrange the marriage.
Kamla says
her husband has had a rough life. His
parents died when he was five. He was
then raised by his grandparents who also died.
He was then sent to live with his Aunt who was mean to him. He completed the fifth grade and has been
working odd jobs to survive ever since.
Kamla loves
her husband dearly. When she was sick he
carried her miles several times to the Doctor on his back. She says not many husbands would do
that. We have had the opportunity to
meet him. He seems like a kind and
decent man. One can tell he cares very
much for her also.
Kamla has
three children, boys eight and ten and a daughter three and a half. She is working to provide them an education
and a better life. In order to save
money Kamla chooses to cook over a wood fire rather than spend money on gas.
In the
short time Kamla has been with us, I have grown to care for her. She is smart, resourceful and shows
initiative. She is always laughing. It was Kamla that found the cottage we are
going to rent. While we were talking
about how to manage the move she had already arranged for a pickup truck and
help! I was astonished.
My husband
and I both feel that Kamla will be a part of our lives for a long time. While we cannot help all of India we can help
one family. We will help educate Kamla's
children and help with other family expenses as well. In short Kamla and her family are becoming a
part of our family.
I love this story and really enjoyed reading it. Tell Kamla that I think she is beautiful both in spirit and in body. What a great mother and strong woman. I love following your journey with Ram in India. I love the pics of your home. I love what you are working and striving toward. Basically, I'm sending a lot of love, prayers and positive energy your way !
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